By Abby McAllister

I was just re-reading my husband’s post on how to enjoy the outdoors in winter time.   I love that guy.  He is so good at distilling things down to their most basic.  Anytime I want to share something with him I end up beating around in the bush, circling around the issue and generally babbling on until he sums up my point in just a few words.  I can really appreciate that.  However, sometimes there is some value in getting “there” by going the long way around.  So, after reading his post I felt there were a few things he might have overlooked that might be important to a woman.  And guys, if it is important to your girl it is important to you.  I thought I might take a stab at a re-write of Harley’s post from a woman’s perspective, agreeing with all he said but adding a few important thoughts for us women (oh you know that means so many more words but you get a little attitude with it so it’s all good!).

Here’s the truth: I just don’t like to be cold.  That’s the real deal.  I really don’t like to be cold.  I will go to great lengths to avoid being any bit of cold.  Of course, with my husband and 4 active boys, not going outside for 4 months is really not an option so here are the things that have changed my life from a “run-and-hide-before-he-makes-me-go-out-in-that-frozen-wasteland” kind of girl to an “ok-i-can-do-this-and-I-might-even-enjoy-a-tiny-bit-of-it” girl that follow off Harley’s last post.

1.  Stay hydrated.  This is very important for all the reasons Harley mentioned.  However, you men give very little thought to the consequences of hydration for a girl…especially when out enjoying snow sports.  It takes very little for a man to “resolve” the consequences of his consumption of water while for us ladies it means exposing some very sensitive areas not accustomed to exposure to the cold.  Unfortunately the importance of hydration cannot be ignored so take a few extra measures to make sure you can still enjoy your time outdoors.  If you are a coffee drinker you may want to either tone it down on the morning of an outing or push it earlier so that the effects of caffeine can wear off before you hit the woods.  Also, bring a little roll of toilet paper in a zip closure baggie in your pocket or day pack.  Keep drinking water as you exercise but do it in small sips.  Listen, none of this is backed up by scientific evidence…just personal experience.  Men, you get to make sure your girl has a safe place to …well, do what she has to do… You want that girl to keep spending time outside with you?  Make it as enjoyable as you can for her!

​2.  Dress in layers (not cotton)-or I would say “get the right gear!” For most of my life I have gotten by with too big winter wear discarded by my brothers or husband.  As cheap as I am I have never been one to spend money on new, cutting edge, fancy pants gear.  However, I managed to fall in love with and marry a gear head.  Luckily for me he is also a “thrifty Scotsman” so we aren’t breaking the bank.  Also luckily for me, early on in our marriage he decided I needed some proper gear.  He did a lot of research and spent some money to get me great gear.  
How do we define “great gear?”  First, it needs to be made from the appropriate materials.  People, please don’t wear cotton when it is cold and wet out!  I know your sweat pants are comfy around the house but they are not for wearing in the cold.  Also, your cute new jeans are out too!  Not a good choice.  When shopping for outdoor winter wear look for wool or wool blends.  If you haven’t checked out modern wool products you really need to.  Gone are the days of scratchy, bunchy, thick wool pants and gloves.  The new wool clothing is really amazing.  Check out brands like Ibex, Stoic and Smartwool.  Here’s another little confession of mine: I wear my ​

for about 8 months of the year.  They are soft and thin and go under my jeans, leggings, workout clothes-everything!  Yup, I wear them full time for 8 months a year.  You might want two pairs so you can wash them…I also adore my Stoic boy short undies.  I hike in them all year around since they are warm in the cold and still comfy when it’s warm out.  Check them out . 
 
The second qualifier for “right gear” is it needs to fit.  If gear is too big it won’t trap warm air around your body and you will be always working to warm up the incoming arctic air.  If it is too tight you won’t be comfortable but more importantly it can cut off circulation which is one way your body works to warm itself.  Also, if gear is too big it gets bunchy and itchy and uncomfortable.  Once your brain is distracted from the activity you are doing and onto how your body is uncomfortable, you are more likely to notice the cold and have it become a concern.  This goes for boots, mittens, coats and all the base layers of clothing.  Making the move from too big hand-me-down clothes to ones that fit has made a huge difference in my willingness to brave the outdoors in winter.
 
The third qualifier for “great gear” is that you feel like you look good.  I know that seems vain and silly but the fact is that the chances of me heading out into the woods feeling like a dumpy dwarf are much lower than if I feel like an ice princess.  Even if we probably won’t see people we know, or any people for that matter, I just don’t want to go out feeling like a troll.  Girls, we want to look good!  Men, we will join you anywhere if we feel like we are killin’ it so get us the good stuff already!

3.  Food For Fuel.  I like to call this one “permission to Snack a lot!”  That’s right, you need to eat!  We all know that when we exercise our body is burning calories but we seldom think about the calories burned just trying to warm ourselves in the winter months.  Time spent exploring a winter wonderland is no time to be dieting!  Your body needs the calories to keep you warm so go ahead and choose some yummy, high calorie treats and allow yourself to indulge.  You may not experience feelings of being hungry while out exploring but if you start to feel clumsy, dull, tired or cold you probably need to recharge your internal furnace with some calorie fuel.  Keep an eye on your kids too.  If they are whining or dragging or falling behind it is probably time for a refueling stop.  Make sure to bring snacks they (and you!) are excited about.  If you pull out the health-food organic seaweed and chia seed bar you may have a hard time getting them to fuel up.

4.  Wear a hat.   This one can be tricky since most hats I choose to wear are either all style, no function or plenty of function but if I take them off I look like Medusa.  Try to choose a hair style and a hat that will work well together.  Remember, we need to look good out there!  Also, please note all the other Medusa-headed ladies at the lodge or pizza place who just came in out of the snow and try to feel ok about the look for a bit.

​5.  Think safety.  Ok, mostly I leave this one to my guy.  However, should the worst happen and he isn’t able to guide us out of some spot I like to know that he has put a “way-point” on his GPS device that will take me back out of wherever he drags me to.  If you are an overbearing control freak you might want your own GPS device but probably one is enough (I do carry a few extra batteries just in case!). 
 
If you follow the first 4 points and have a GPS with you I think you will feel pretty good about getting out and enjoying the winter landscape-at least more than you might have before!  Best of luck to you ladies and please, share tips that help you enjoy the outdoors in the cold.

We are coming to the end of four years spent living in the Dominican Republic.  My wife and I have always lived in the west (CO, CA, WA), but then in 2010 we sold everything and took our kids with us to go and serve as teachers in a non-profit Christian school in the D.R. It has been a wonderful time for a variety of reasons, but as we look back there is one thing we want to share that continues to impress itself on our minds.

We have always loved to be active and outdoors, even once we had kids.  So our first weekend here, in what was still a very foreign place to us, we threw the boys in the car and started on a dirt road out of town.  Jarabacoa is a small town, so it didn't take long!  Soon we crossed a decent sized stream, and we applied the old adage that anything below the high water mark must be public land.  We jumped out by a bridge and started splashing, exploring, and playing in the small stream. As we prepared to leave and were hiking back to the car, a gentleman kindly informed us that this was private land, and we should be more careful about where we ventured (how we understood him with our limited Spanish I will never know).

This was but the beginning of something we were soon to realize; there is very little public land in the D.R.  I am finding it hard to put into words just what a shock to my system this reality was.  Quite simply, I had grown up my entire life recreating on the vast public lands that are afforded to us as citizens of the U.S.  I had been to countless National Parks, I had camped and hiked through myriad National Forests, I had hunted and fished on obscure BLM properties in numerous states. Heck, even the ski areas leased their lands from the Forest Service!

In the coming weeks and months, it even started to effect how I saw myself as a father in this new place.  I had always thought of myself as a good Dad, and to me a big part of that included taking my boys camping, fishing, hiking, skiing, etc.  But how could I do that here? Where would I do that here?

Accordingly, we set about trying to figure out what activities we COULD do here. And we came to learn that our first impressions were not entirely accurate.  Many larger streams did allow for public access for canyoning, and the region had several impressive waterfalls that one could hike to through the stream bed.  Also, there are national parks in the Dominican Republic, but they typically are highly controlled and require you to hire a guide to access them.

Nevertheless, and with the help of new friends who had lived here longer than we had, we were able to find some really great places to adventure in this country.  For more details on some of these excellent adventures, check out the “Dominican Republic” section of our Trip Reports page. In the coming weeks, we will share more about how these experiences have shaped and informed how we are choosing to return to our native land - together with our new son whom we recently adopted from the Dominican Republic!